about happiness

I wanna tell you the story about happiness.

There are twins. Let’s say them Ana and Ani. They born at the same time. Grow up in the same family which their parents give them affection equal another.  The fathers worked as a teacher. The mothers just is a housewives. So, their economic condition is limited. Ana and Ani have same physical appearance, with big body. They are totally different with the beautiful actress or models who usual showed on TV.

With the same condition, same family, same input, it means that they have same reason to feel happy, right? Same definition about happiness? Same feeling what they feel about their life?

Actually it’s not like that. Ani hates her life. She always thinks that her life is terrible. With the parents which can not give her much money to buy anything that she want. Shopisticated hp, tablet, or brand clothes like their theirfriends. The body which she hates because she is fat . She always thinks that her life is not happy. Yeah, she thinks that she doesn’t have happiness because she doesn’t have much money or ideal body like people dreams.

It difference with Ana. Ana loves her life. She always thinks that she is happy. She has family which always love her. She has perfect body, i mean she has two eyes to see the beautiful world, two ears to listen, two hands to hold, two foot to walk. She doesn’t have serious disease, it means she is health. She has many friends who are not care about  her body which are fat or not. Yeah, she thinks that she has happiness for her life.

Every people has different definition to explain about happiness. But their definition determine their life which are  happy or not.

Happiness is not depend on how much money that we have.

Happiness is not depend on family that we have.

Happiness is not depend on physical appearance that we have.

Happiness is not depend on brain capacity or IQ amount that we have.

Happiness is not depend on we are popular or not.

Happiness is in our mind. What we think about we are happy or we are not. It’s our choice to choose feel happy or not about our life.

Happiness is about how we are satisfied wih our life. Whatever life that we have.

Happiness is about how we enjoy our process to get that we want.

Happiness is about we accept something that we cannot change.

So, dear my friend, stop blaming your life now! Change something that we can change with our effort. Accept the condition that we cannot change. Do the best and just enjoy your life!